Gratitude

This last few weeks were really crazy and trying to get access to my website. I’m quite a novice at tech stuff. I do rely upon those who can do better than I. February is the month of love. Most often connected with romantic love, but why not just have it about love always? I challenge you to start your day with gratitude and list 3 things daily you are grateful for.

My simple list for today:
The IT guy at 1and1.com, he really came through for me.
The snow plow drivers, we’ve had 11+ inches of snow in Chicago
and Coffee. That’s a given.

Enjoy finding gratitude and living it each day. Sometimes it’s not easy, but it makes life easier to stay in the energy of thankfulness.

Victorious over Victimhood

When we are feeling like life is really doing a number on us, it’s difficult to feel happy. Sometimes we start to feel like we are a victim. We react to other’s words and actions and make it somehow about us. When our attitudes are victim like there are a few ways to pull out of it. After all, who wants to be unhappy? We are always responsible for how we feel. We get to choose that. I know that sounds really challenging sometimes. For me, I reach into my tool bag to help me get to a place of feeling better. The shift helps me deal with life and it’s curveballs and, frankly, other people.

When you are feeling like life is kicking you in the teeth or even just stirred up about something, the best way to move out of it is to get moving. Work out, walk, dance, swim, do anything that moves your body physically. For me, the harder the better. I Crossfit. If I have had a bad day or feeling out of sorts, I head to class. There is nothing better than wearing your butt out than Crossfit. I leave feeling satisfied and can hardly remember why I was upset in the first place.

Another great tool is Youtube. My standbys are anything by Abraham-Hicks. A funny dog or cat video also works.

Affirmations work too. I like “even though I am feeling sad, I love an approve of myself.” Just say that a few times and you will feel the shift. There are a lot of people who can’t say that they love or approve of themselves.

Try some of these little shifts to move you to a place of victory over victim. Your happiness is your job.

Peace and love.

Influencers of 2014 – People you should know

2014 brought some of my favorite influencers of this past year. These are people who’s work really helped me. Check them out.

Astrologers:
Kelley Rosano www.kelleyrosano.com – Kelley releases videos for each astrological sign on youtube. I love listening to what is coming up for my sign. She’s fun, positive and love her freebies!

Zoe Moon- www.zoemoon.com – Zoe is another gem. Like her on Facebook and get her daily forecast. She is easy to understand. I think I’ve learned more about astrology this year through her.

Self Help:

Natalie Lue- Baggage Reclaim: www.baggagereclaim.com Natalie’s words of wisdom and common sense have been a staple in my bag of self help tips. She is straight forward and if you have no idea what “healthy” is, you will find it here. Also check out her e-book on relationships “Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl.” This will set you straight on dating.

Dating and Relationships:

Matthew Hussey- https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam. Aside from being great to look at, his wisdom from a man’s perspective is fabulous. If you have struggled with dating the wrong man or not attracting the right one, run, don’t walk and if you can see him in person, go for it. He offers some of the best advice I have found.

Enjoy these influencers! May they bring you something new and good to your 2015.

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2015 New Beginnings

268106_10200229216236865_1338498116_nHappy New Year! I hope your new year brings you and yours peace, love and joy. I got a meme from a friend that said “My New Year’s resolution is to stop kidding myself about lifestyle changes. Nobody likes a cheap, skinny bitch anyway.” I got a good laugh, but also thought about how nice it is to have a reboot each year. Regardless of what you want to accomplish, New Year’s is a nice time to start fresh. If you think about it, every moment is an opportunity to start new. So, this year, I’m going to try and remember that each moment is new. I have the ability to create something different each day. I usually make a vision board for the year, but this year, I did something different. I will create my vision board here, weekly. Putting words up on this blog that hopefully will make sense to someone, but if it doesn’t, I will use it as an opportunity to create each week something new and different. I hope you will take the opportunity to do something different this year, something that makes you laugh or smile. Don’t do it as an obligation, do it because you can. Peace and love.

2013 Fresh

268106_10200229216236865_1338498116_nWell, it’s 2013. I have for the first time in years felt no need to make any kind of resolutions or do anything other than be grateful for what is and live from where I’m at. 2012 closed with ending a short relationship that never quite got there. It was a gift in so many ways. I celebrated the New Year with a friend and had fantastic food, great conversation and was pleasantly satisfied.

Even though it’s a fresh new year, each day is greeted the same way. “How can I be a blessing to someone today?” and “What will it take to enjoy this day with joy and ease?” The Universe answers.

This year I intend to continue to improve my fitness and support others in their desires to grow. I am here to listen and relay what guidance comes from the highest source. I renew my intentions to be a blessing in someone’s life.

Allow yourself to get up each day with excitement and enjoy each moment of 2013.

With great love,

Robin aka Your Psychic Girlfriend.

What I learned from Facebook

I love Facebook. A friend of mine e-mailed me and asked where our mutual friend had gone and requested her number as she couldn’t find it and was concerned. I looked on her page and she was gone! So, I found her number that was stored in the mail exc

hanges and somehow actually made it in my phone contact list and called her.

My friend was happy to hear not only from me, but from the other people who noticed her presence missing. She was going through a hard time. It was what she needed. Someone to reach out and let her know, she’s not alone and she’s very much loved. We are all connected and with social networks, we can reach out easily to see how someone is doing.

Today, just notice and give thanks for the people in your life. I thank my Facebook friends all 840 of them and to my real life interactive friends, thank you too!

Manifesting Made Easy Play Shop March 14th

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Join me by reserving your spot now! Class begins March 14 and goes for 4 consecutive Wednesdays. 12pm EST for one hour each session.




Hormonal Dive

Ok, so my tantrum is over. It really was a hormonal dive. That damn serotonin decided not to be present so much for me. Here’s the deal. When in a hormonal ride, it feels like life sucks and nearly everything is seen from the eyes of hell. I am a

reasonably upbeat happy person. I felt like life was spinning out of control and had no rational reason why.
What did I learn? I learned that sometimes we have no control over what is going on internally. Menopause sucks. I learned that I verbally express everything and it ain’t pretty folks. I can go from being really sad and emotional to really ready smash someone in the head. Of course, I stick to verbally assaulting my friends.
No supply of chocolate can erase the feelings. I didn’t try alcohol or anything else. Not that I want to.
In any case, I really found out that I have friends who really love and care for me. A doctor friend who knows her stuff and I feel well taken care of. So, I’ll be tweaking my diet, taking my herbs (she’s practices Chinese medicine too) and keep dark chocolate handy too.
The next time I take that ride, I’ll be ready or not, but either way, I know it’s temporary.
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Tantrum

I’m having a bit of a breakdown. A client I have been working with revealed that her boyfriend of a year told her he loved her. She went on to say that she hasn’t heard a man tell her he loved her for over 5 years. I was thrilled for her as I’ve b

een with her since her down in the dumps days and through the bad apples in her life. I truly was happy for her.

The conversation in my head began with, “when was the last time I heard a man (I loved) tell ME he loved me?” UM..UH, oh hell…. It’s been a long time. The conversation continued until, I was having a major breakdown, still am. I haven’t heard “I love you” from a man since.. well, a long time. Over 5 years. I was with someone I loved, but he didn’t love me. Seems to be a theme in my life. The past four years I have been healing, changing my vibration, forgiving, clearing and anything else I can think of to bring to me my “enjoyable other.” Frankly, I’m quite sick of it. It seems hopeless, futile and downright effed up.

Tantrum time. I called a friend and vented. I may as well have thrown myself on the floor kicking and screaming. Maybe I will. It seems I give and give and am really ready to receive someone good in my life. Someone, loving and who shares his heart openly and receives the love I have and gives love to me.
I take advice from the so called “experts” read books that help me become a “Bitch” men will love. It’s become quite sad and comical at the same time. Do I really have to change the fundamental nature of who I am to have love in my life? I hope not.

I have been listening to some tele-seminars on how to call in the ONE, create a loving relationship and coming up with nothing. I read somewhere to make a demand of the Universe. I think I’ll try that. From the website http://www.accessyourconsciousness.com, here is my declaration.

“Universe! If there is someone 1000 times greater and more amazing than I could imagine, currently available to me, I FUCKING DEMAND OF MYSELF TO RECEIVE IT NOW! And I don’t CARE what my old limiting beliefs are, I’m having it NOW! I’m choosing way Fucking BEYOND my old reality!!! Not LATER, but NOW!!! Dammit, I’m FUCKING getting OVER THIS OLD SHIT!

Thank you for letting me vent. I’ll be back to my happy self after a nap, some chocolate and maybe a gallon of coffee.

Love

Happy Valentines Day!

As I was writing this, I thought about the best Valentine’s Days of the past. I remember decorating boxes in grade school and getting a handmade card from my 2nd Grade crush. It made my day and even though he gave them to

everyone in the room, I thought I was special in that moment.

Fast forward to my sophomore year in college, a received a beautiful plant from my mother Somehow, she knew I didn’t have a sweetheart at the time. It made me grateful to have her take that effort to send me something so wonderful.

Another Valentine a few years ago, gave me gifts, but what I treasured was his note about how his heart was opening to me. I felt so cared for and celebrated love that day. That love didn’t last, but I felt special and loved that day.

A couple years ago, I met a friend in Santa Fe and he was another reminder of how much love there is in people whether it lasts for a day, a season or a lifetime.

This year, I am celebrating Valentine’s Day by treating myself and showering my kids with candy and little reminders that love is sweet and fun. I’ll go for a walk by the lake, enjoy a great cup of coffee and indulge in dark chocolate. I’ll create an environment of self love and celebration of the people in my life that remind me that love is not just one day a year, but every moment of every day.

I will look back fondly on my Valentine memories, create new ones and look forward to a legendary romantic love that seems to be elusive. I will send out love energy to all who may have forgotten that love comes in many forms and everyone is loved and loveable. How do I know? I just do! Happy Valentines Day!