YPGF Tip of the Week 1/5/09

Hi, This is your psychic girlfriend with the tip of the week.

Train yourself to focus on well being.

Keep your focus on what you want.  Turn off the news, stop reading about the economy, direct conversations with your friends to focus on the good stuff.  Justifying why things are “bad” will generate negative feelings within you.  When you have the negative vibe going, you will then continue to look for evidence to support the negativity.  You will hear more about what is not going right and less of what is.  People thrive in all economies.  Play with the idea that you can have whatever you want.  Focus on your desires and feel how good it  feels.  If you are wanting a good job or a good relationship, you certainly cannot get there by feeling bad.
Justify to yourself why things are great with your economy.  Find reasons why you are doing well and will continue to do well.  List them on an index card or sticky post it!  Keep it with you.  Tune out the negative, tune in to well being.  At the end of the day write a list of evidence to your well being.  For example:  I had money to pay for a great cup of coffee.  I learned about a new opportunity for employment today.   I can thrive because I am enthusiastic.  I do a good job.

You may not know how to get there from here, but keep your focus on what you want and add a dose of how good it feels to have it.

Keep your focus on the good and train yourself to see the gifts in all situation.  Your economy can thrive right now.